issue with accelerate

[Abbyhub3]

i tried to use pip install accelerate, and did all updates and installs, But everytime i press train i get this error

21:02:13-983148 INFO Start training Dreambooth...
21:02:13-984147 INFO Validating lr scheduler arguments...
21:02:13-986146 INFO Validating optimizer arguments...
21:02:13-988145 INFO Validating R:/Stable_diffusion/train/these/log existence and writability... SUCCESS
21:02:13-989143 INFO Validating R:/Stable_diffusion/train/these/model existence and writability... SUCCESS
21:02:13-991142 INFO Validating runwayml/stable-diffusion-v1-5 existence... SKIPPING: huggingface.co model
21:02:13-992141 INFO Validating R:/Stable_diffusion/train/these/image existence... SUCCESS
21:02:13-994139 INFO Folder 100_Hela: 100 repeats found
21:02:13-995139 INFO Folder 100_Hela: 36 images found
21:02:13-998137 INFO Folder 100_Hela: 36 * 100 = 3600 steps
21:02:13-999136 INFO Regulatization factor: 1
21:02:14-000135 INFO Total steps: 3600
21:02:14-001135 INFO Train batch size: 1
21:02:14-002134 INFO Gradient accumulation steps: 1
21:02:14-004133 INFO Epoch: 1
21:02:14-005131 INFO Max train steps: 1600
21:02:14-006131 INFO lr_warmup_steps = 160
21:02:14-048098 ERROR accelerate not found"

I dont know what else i can do..

also i didnt install cudn because i keep getting this error
"ERROR Installation Failed: "R:\Stable_diffusion\train2\kohya_ss\venv\Lib\site-packages\nvidia\cudnn\bin"
could not be found."

also blip works just fine, but only training doesnt work (IDK if that matters)
can someone pleassse help me out here