CLI tools: disable incoming disterl listeners.

[lukebakken]

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#11463 (comment)

CLI tools could (should) use RABBITMQ_CTL_ERL_ARGS="-dist_listen false" by default.

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RABBITMQ_CTL_ERL_ARGS="-dist_listen false"

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[michaelklishin]

@lukebakken I cannot think of a reason not to do it. rabbitmq-diagnostics consume_event_stream and rabbitmq-diagnostics list_* commands are the closest we have to a "two-way communication" and even they do not need a listener.

But we can tweak the RABBITMQ_CTL_ERL_ARGS default and see how well those commands that stream results (continuously or when there's a large number of, say, queues) do.