fixes for flakes in raft removed tests

[miagilepner]

Description

Updates the tests to fix occasional flakes.

Adds a helper method for an enterprise test. Enterprise PR: https://github.com/hashicorp/vault-enterprise/pull/7199

TODO only if you're a HashiCorp employee

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  break any tests. Sometimes ENT only tests rely on public functions in CE
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CI Results:
All required Go tests succeeded but failures were detected ⚠️
Failures:

Test Type	Package	Test	Logs
race	vault/external_tests/raftha	TestRaftHACluster_Removed_ReAdd	view test results

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Build Results:
All builds succeeded! ✅

[kubawi]

LGTM, thanks Mia!