Update upload-artifact action version, fix scp

[MarkAckert]

All uses of upload-artifact@v3 must be updated to v4. Builds will be failed out of the gate by GHA if the deprecated upload-artifact version is part of a workflow file's spec.

https://github.blog/changelog/2024-04-16-deprecation-notice-v3-of-the-artifact-actions/

Adds -O to scp for the new ubuntu-24 being pulled in by ubuntu-latest images.

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build 6750 SUCCEEDED.
Link to workflow run: https://github.com/zowe/zowe-install-packaging/actions/runs/12816507694

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Test workflow 5946 is started.
Running install test: Convenience Pax
The zowe artifact being used by this test workflow: libs-snapshot-local/org/zowe/3.1.0-PR-4136/zowe-3.1.0-pr-4136-6750-20250116195610.pax
Running on machine: zzow09
Result: FAILURE
Link to workflow run: https://github.com/zowe/zowe-install-packaging/actions/runs/12816580781

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build 6750 SUCCEEDED.
Link to workflow run: https://github.com/zowe/zowe-install-packaging/actions/runs/12816507694

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Test workflow 5949 is started.
Running install test: Convenience Pax
The zowe artifact being used by this test workflow: libs-snapshot-local/org/zowe/3.1.0-PR-4136/zowe-3.1.0-pr-4136-6750-20250116204842.pax
Running on machine: zzow11
Result: FAILURE
Link to workflow run: https://github.com/zowe/zowe-install-packaging/actions/runs/12817354474

[MarkAckert]

/ci

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build 6758 SUCCEEDED.
Link to workflow run: https://github.com/zowe/zowe-install-packaging/actions/runs/12831572206

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Test workflow 5954 is started.
Running install test: Convenience Pax
The zowe artifact being used by this test workflow: libs-snapshot-local/org/zowe/3.1.0-PR-4136/zowe-3.1.0-pr-4136-6758-20250117150810.pax
Running on machine: zzow10
Result: FAILURE
Link to workflow run: https://github.com/zowe/zowe-install-packaging/actions/runs/12831688200