ensure update-version.sh updates pyproject.toml

[jameslamb]

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#136

This project's update-version.sh misses some RAPIDS dependencies in pyproject.toml. This fixes that.

Also updates to the latest rapids-dependency-file-generator.

Notes for Reviewers

How I tested this

git fetch upstream --tags
./ci/release/update-version.sh '0.43.00'
git grep -E '25\.2'
git grep -E '25\.02'
git grep -E '0\.42'

[jameslamb]

/merge